Tuesday, July 16, 2019

Nepal: Pokhara & Chitwan

"Ladies and gentleman, we have arrived at airport.”  Still somewhat disoriented from food poisoning and the chaos of the aeronautical industry in Nepal, we could've used more specifics, but we landed in Pokhara to find all our bags, the Glacier Hotel and Spa van waiting for us, and most importantly, breathable air.  Most stunning, of course, were the sharp views of several snow-capped mountain ranges that lined the town and beyond.


Boarding our tiny plane (we were to find smaller, later)

The most adventurous we got off the hotel property that first day was crossing the street to look at the lake.  Imagine how much more beautiful this picture would look to someone who had only seen rivers filled with trash for the previous week.



We dedicated our afternoon to a massage and a not-quite-regulation Ayurvedic oil drip, bookended with thrilling meals of boiled vegetables on rice and Clif Bars.  Here's what my hair looked like after the oil drip, several shampoos, and a few hours to "dry."

Still saturated with oil

The highlight of Pokhara was our sunrise tour, led by the owner of our hotel.  We woke up an hour before dawn, got in his truck, and started the extreme offroading adventure up the backroads to a spectacular 360-degree lookout over the Himalayas.  It literally took my breath away to see the sweeping beauty, to feel insignificance in the face of majesty, to take in hope and clarity and grace.  Amanda, yoga teacher in training, captured it best: "How can we approach every day like it offers its own sunrise over the Himalayas?"  Indeed.


Amanda, amazed


Me, hoping the guide won't say it's time to leave

With Annapurna (L) and Machapuchare (R), 
the latter meaning "fishtail"

Time for reflection

That afternoon we hired a captain, if you will, to paddle us around the lake.





And early the next morning we were back on a Buddha Air flight, this one smaller than the last, with only one seat on either side of the aisle, stairs that folded into the cabin and doubled as the door, and an open cockpit.



Oh, hello sirs

We splurged on a resort called Kasara near Chitwan National Park, which had exotic-feeling rooms (check out the entrance to our abode, with the bedroom through a door on the right, and the open-air bathroom and shower through the left), lots of organized adventures in the park, and a pool.



 
You may imagine we spent most of our time in Chitwan
on safari, but in actuality it was perched right here

We were in the last suite off of this long, lush path

Early our first morning we climbed into the resort's stadium jeep with several retired couples and headed into the jungle in search of wildlife with our driver and guide.


Sunrise over Chitwan

The jungle is so still until it's not

Had to keep our eyes peeled!

View out the roof 

What all will we see?!

We saw a lot: peacocks both flying and dancing, storks, king fishers showing off their bright teal feathers, darter birds with necks like snakes, creepy, greedy little monkeys, and according to Amanda's scrupulous safari notes, the "lesser white something," which I recall as my personal favorite.

The highlight was our search for the greater one-horned rhinoceros.  We parked the jeep next to a tall grassland, and kept an eye out for rustling.  The guide spotted a rhino, and while at first we could only spot a wiggling ear or hear him marking his territory, eventually he emerged onto the path, casually traipsing over our tracks!


An awed hush befell the group while we took in this 
suit-of-armor-clad wonder!

As we contentedly thought that was as good as it would get (barring a miraculous tiger sighting, of course), a mama and her baby came out of the brush, scurrying away from us:


At that point, we felt very satisfied with our safari!  Not everyone gets lucky enough to spot rhinos.

 A few stories above the thrush where the rhinos grazed

Certainly what Amanda was most looking forward to was visiting Stand Up For Elephants, an NGO providing direct aid, education, and advocacy for and about elephants at Chitwan National Park.  There is not a single free elephant in Nepal, as all have been taken into captivity, chained, and used for transportation or tourist attractions under conditions any human worker's union would balk at, not to mention animal rights activists.  


SU4E has found an elephant owner that allows them to rent a couple of their calmer elephants to host "elephant happy hours," wherein they have ethically-conscious tourists feed the elephants and wander the jungle with them and their handler, giving the elephants a much-needed break from carrying throngs of tourists on their backs.


Amanda was so excited for this activity that she barely slept and ate before it, elephants being her absolute favorite (spirit?) animal.  And when Rupi, our gorgeous new friend emerged, I swear she almost cried.  The last time I saw her this aglow had to be her wedding day!


WE FED AN ELEPHANT.  She ate all kinds of fruits and vegetables, snaking her trunk around a couple bananas or a squash and curling them up into her mouth whole.  As she grabbed the snack, we had the opportunity to pet her trunk, which was absolutely surreal.  I was equal parts excited, amazed, and terrified, as she was this majestic creature who could've killed us all at any moment.  

But Rupi, whose name means "beauty," was calm and sweet.  In just an hour with her, I honestly felt that I got a sense of her personality, and I feel emotionally connected just thinking of her.  She loves exploring the jungle freely, which she is only allowed to do during these SU4E hours.  You can imagine she's learned to love the people leading the groups and to understand what special privileges are in store for her when they come by with visitors and weighty grocery bags.


Sadly, most elephants in that region never get any sort of breaks like this.  Many are chained so tightly that they can't even lie down to sleep.  They are washed frequently by handlers whose pride dictates they must have a sparkling clean elephant, even though the dirt protects them from the sun.  They get sores under their tails from the platforms attached to their backs to hold riders.  The list of injustices goes on an on, each item so unnecessary and heartbreaking.




In a national park, where animal protection is seemingly sacrosanct, elephants just don't make the empathy cut.  They have for too long been seen as a financial asset (an elephant often selling for ~$80k in the area), and as a type of transportation mule.  Researching this, I found it is estimated that a living elephant brings in almost $1.6 million over its lifetime in ecotourism dollars (via the iWorry campaign by the David Sheldrick Wildlife Trust).  They are simply too valuable and too engrained in the economy for the local society to change their minds about them.  This mentality is what SU4E hopes to change.

If you're interested in helping their cause, you can donate here!

Rupi engaged in her favorite activity:
scratching up against trees

Can you feel the love tonight?

One last, awe-struck glance

I was so appreciative to Amanda for making sure we were being ecologically conscious on this trip, and as a result I hope to be more thoughtful in future travels.  So many tourists are not well-educated (often myself included) about the implications of the attractions they put their money towards, and are just doing it because they're seen it on social media, or its in the tour books of what to do in a certain place.  This is a great example of putting your money where your mouth is.  If riding elephants wasn't lucrative, it simply wouldn't be the issue it is today.

Last night of vacation vibes

Bird watching, our last adventure before the long journey home, turned out to be a more adventurous undertaking than originally imagined as we alighted from the stadium jeep and received a brief, contrary, and less-than-comforting safety orientation from the guide: "If you see animal, don’t move. I may tell you to run in zig zags."



A guide to take up the rear and three generations of a New England family rounded out our tour, with Grandma Nancy rapidly emerging as our favorite with her sleeper sense of humor, deadpan and unexpected.  Owing to her husband's birdwatching fascination, the family had several binocular options on hand and generously offered to share.  As the bird guide constructively narrowed the visual search by telling us to "look at the green tree," Nancy proffered her binoculars to Amanda, who declined, preferring for Nancy to catch a flash of feathers.  Nancy insisted, whispering conspiratorially, "I can’t really see them, I just pretend," initiating a bond as Amanda accepted the binoculars and replied, "I do that sometimes with my husband, too!"  Walking further into the jungle, Nancy confided that she had been known to spot the occasional descending leaf bird.

 
Nancy, a veritable spirit animal in her own right,
casually holding a deer antler (!)

Along the way Amanda, feeling something was amiss in her shoe, tapped the guide and said simply, "I need your help."  She removed the airy sneaker, with Nancy offering stabilization and I photojournalism, and the guide nonchalantly removed a leech from her foot, which had been happily snacking on her for about ten minutes.  The guide proceeded to show us the leech by letting it crawl around his hand.  Word to the wise: do not google leeches-no good can come from it.


Did we see some beautiful birds?  Yes.  I even spotted a rare woodpecker for the group and fleetingly felt like a professional naturalist.  But what I will remember is Nancy.  And the leech.  And the terrifying recommendations from the guide about what I should do if we encounter a rhino.  But yes, the birds were nice, too.  Even the ones we only pretended to see.

Sunday, June 2, 2019

Nepal: Visiting the Women's Center


Our visit to Nasreen's Local Women's Handicrafts center, several miles outside of the capital, was the day to which we had all been most looking forward.  This is where the magic happens, where the women come to their fair trade jobs in a safe and supportive community entirely run by women to create bracelets, rugs, scarves, you name it.  They all have specific jobs, including quality control, and there's a management structure so the women have a leadership trajectory.  All of their goods then funnel to the central shopping district where they have more women running the shop, and to the online store.  If you're ever in Nepal, schedule a tour of the center, and definitely don't miss the shop in Thamel!

A preview of our welcome, on the path 
before even arriving at the center

The women all put so much time into preparing for our visit.  They'd made us flower necklaces and spent all morning cooking a feast for 60.  After an incredibly warm welcome, they all scurried off to their stations to prepare for our tour of the facility so we could see them in action.

Welcome party


Laughing it up with Saheen

Nasreen touring us around the sewing room

Learning about their priceless patterns

They're so proud of their work, and rightly so!

Some of the most touching moments came when Nasreen would speak of her pride in her younger sister.  Saheen, like Nasreen, was forced into sweat shop labor at a young age.  Tears well in both their eyes to think of all they've endured, and it's obvious that Nasreen's sister is a huge motivation in her creating opportunities for women.

Saheen's embroidering skills

One of the causes the women are working on is destigmatizing menstruation.  In many parts of Nepal, menstruating women and girls are considered impure and are banished to huts separate from their families while on their cycle.  Several women die from this each year, and while it is illegal, the tradition is still observed in many parts of the country.  For more, check out this story in the New York Times.  

In America, we just complain that our period landed on the weekend we're going to be at the lake, or how our cramps should afford us one day of sick leave per month.  I cannot imagine the institutional shame, embarrassment, and loneliness women in Nepal endure as their social price for the capacity to beget children.

To combat this, the women at the center sew reusable pads and have created an educational comic book on the topic.  They coordinate with local schools that will let them speak to boys and girls about what menstruation really means, and supply the girls with the pads and books.  While not every principal is welcoming, each child they can get their message in front of is one more break in the chain.  It all starts with teaching the children.

Amazed to actually be here

Back at the center, we toured a separate building that houses their larger equipment, and got to see the personalities really emerge!


Recycled saris being woven into rugs and other items

So filled with vibrancy and joy!

Something that really struck me was the ebullience of these women.  Nasreen doesn't take just anyone under her wing; these are women that have experienced severe adversity and exhibit promise.  Seeing them together in the community Nasreen has built, part of me envied the connection, the way they lift each other up in work and in life, encouraging, laughing, singing.  It was truly beautiful to see the threads of empowerment being woven.  

The loom in action

After the tour, we made our way up to the rooftop for Paloma, the Mexican sha(wo)man's workshop on female healing.  She had created an altar with special items like Mexican herbs, flower petals, and various rocks and crystals.  She asked for three women who were experiencing a particularly hard time to come forward.  When Nasreen translated, one woman started crying immediately.  It wasn't hard to find two more in need of a little extra love.  

These women have been through more than many of us can imagine.  Some used to work in terrible slave-like conditions.  Others lost everything in the 2015 earthquake (insurance doesn't exist in Nepal).  Many have struggled to provide for their families under a strictly patriarchal society where women are subjugated by husbands in forced underage marriages.

Let's just say some healing was in order.

Paloma kicking off the women's workshop


She had the three women lay on rugs around the altar, surrounded by our wider circle of at least 50 more people.  The ceremony was interactive, intermingling Spanish, English, and Nepali: I found the heartfelt words in her native Spanish the most impactful.  She opened by having us stand as she called out prayers to the gods of the north, south, east, and west, us repeating her words and rotating to face each god's direction before finally dropping to the ground and throwing handfuls of rice into the air.  She brought us back to seated, and encouraged us to close our eyes.  

It was so beautiful to sit there surrounded by so many diverse, beautiful women, holding space for everyone while Paloma beat her drum and built the energy.  Soon, tears started streaming down my face.  I felt so impacted by the energy of the group that my body was literally vibrating.  She invited us each, in our own time, to rise, take a handful of earthly riches from the altar, and sprinkle them with blessings for healing upon the three women.

Gathering rice, herbs, and floral petals

Blessing the women with our offerings

Amanda noticed I was crying, and put flowers on me as a show of love.  More tears spilled, tears of empathy and humility and gratitude and healing and power.  I was immeasurably moved by the heaviness of everyone's pasts being buoyed by the positive, loving energy swirling amidst us.


Soon, we were coming full circle with our songs and prayers to the gods, and it was like we were snapped out of a spell or a dream; I hadn't wanted that feeling of connectedness and higher meaning to end.

But it was lunchtime, and gods know I was down for that.

Our giant, home-cooked Nepali feast!

After our delicious lunch, we tried our hands at craft time.  I think I could probably make one bracelet of questionable quality for every dozen perfect bracelets of theirs!

Learning the weave

We never quite got the hang of it, despite their patience!

As the next day was the big Holi celebration, the ladies organized a mini color festival of love for us on the rooftop.  It was a great way to find the troublemakers, who would come after you with powder, and the includers, who would bring you into their dance circles and make you feel welcome.


Dancing at the Holi celebration

Not even everyone!

It was such a long day filled with positive energy and girlpower.  Meeting the women that I'd been evangelizing for months, and whose wares I had been selling, brought me full circle and made me feel an intense sense of gratitude.

On a total high on the ride back

Nasreen's vision goes so far beyond this center and this one shop.  She wants to bring awareness to fair trade.  To get people out of sweat shops, and into livable wages under beneficial conditions.  To remove the stigma around menstruation.  To give options to women who are held back by antiquated, patriarchal societal norms.  To educate; to empower.  And she takes on the cause with both a fierceness and a supreme humility of spirit.  

Nasreen's just getting started.