Saturday, April 9, 2022

NC: Books, Butterflies, & Basketball


Last weekend I visited North Carolina to get a dose of Brookshire baby time.  The weather was great except for the first hour I was there (more on that in a moment), the energy in Chapel Hill was hyped due to UNC and Duke facing off for the first time in the Final Four that weekend, and we were all excited to get to spend some quality time together.

About 30 seconds after getting into the car with Kristen at airport arrivals, the emergency sirens blared and the radio said there was a tornado warning.  It began listing the more specific areas of concern, the last one being that a tornado touched down...by RDU airport.  We looked at each other with wide eyes and decided to take shelter in the parking garage until the warning passed.  All was well after that - no flying monkeys or striped witch legs spotted.

What a tornado alert looks like

I don't believe I have ever in my life received a more rousing welcome than when I picked up Rosalee from school that first day:

That's a heart melter right there

As expected, every morning Rosalee would come to greet me first thing so we could read books together in the guest bed.  In one book, the girl had a sailboat.  When I asked Rosalee if she had a boat, she replied, "No.  Because I don't have a lake."  Makes sense to me.


Another time, unprompted, she said to me, "You're a really good reader."   


On one of many walks!  
We tried to spot real bunnies but only found these two.

Kristen took Friday off and we took the opportunity to fit a lot in: donation drop offs, brunch from Monuts, Duke Gardens, and a happy hour with her old coworkers.

Duke Gardens

Tulips galore

Grabbing pints at Franklin Motors

Chatting with the old gang

The rest of the family joined us for dinner at Vimala's.  Elliott loved mango lassi.



Saturday morning kicked off with presents!  And later, the farmer's market, the Durham Museum of Life and Science, and ultimately the Final Four game.


So pleased.

Gorgeous choice

First time getting to play inside the museum!


Can you spot Rosalee?

She was hyped on pure joy that the tree house area was reopened.
Rosalee: "I do some things that are preeeetty tricky."

Quick play pause for a girls shot!

After lunch we went to visit the butterflies!  What would make or break the visit?  Rosalee having one land on her again.

Kind strangers recognizing Rosalee's urgent need


Attempted transfer



Silly walks only leaving the museum

Meal times with Elliott were always a crack-up.  It's fascinating to see what interests a one-year-old culinarily-speaking.  I also loved the level of enjoyment he would take in his meals.  I mean, check this kid out:


Bath time was usually necessary after dinner time

Snuggle Yoda!

Tia Kelly got invited to bedtime stories three out of four nights!  Big win.  Rosalee was particularly excited about the new books she and Elliott received, especially Don't Hug Doug (highly recommend).



UNC frat parties for the game,
we decided to pass

Things I learned about basketball this weekend:
  • Michael Jordan went to UNC
  • "In the paint" means scoring from within the free-throw rectangle
  • Probably other stuff but I've unlearnt it by now
UNC won the Final Four game,
but it was a nail biter!

Here are a couple shots from morning play time on our last day together before heading to Carborro for the open streets fair.  I got so much pleasure out of teasing little steps out of Elliott.  He's getting close to confidently walking - right now he's standing on his own and giving us one wobbly step here and there.  You can tell he's proud of himself when it happens!

One step video from the museum



Pillow falls!

Tia Kelly's squishy car vantage point

One car ride poor Elliott was not having it (turns out Cheerios can solve a lot), and wailed inconsolably for 20 minutes straight.  Towards the end of the ride, Rosalee said, "How did this ever happen to us?"  Hey, we were all thinking it.

Rosalee had so much fun at the fair.  She tried jump roping and hula hooping, got to cruise around on her bike, made some new friends at lunch, bounced around with bubbles, learned to limbo, and even got to sit in the driver's seat of a new electric bus.



These are a few of Kristen's favorite things: 
Rosalee, bikes, electric transportation, Tar Heels

Get ready to be overwhelmed by cuteness.  I present: Elliott's dating profile pictures.



We were all pretty beat after the fair.  During Elliott's nap and Rosalee's quiet time, I enjoyed my own mixture of both out on the hammock.  


Soon though, it was discovered that a lethargic raccoon had posted up in the neighbor's chicken coup.  (They are always having exciting animal events in North Carolina, it seems.)  That interrupted quiet time and brought most of us (sans Elliott) to check it out.  Don't worry, he ended up exiting on his own later and no chickens (or small children) were injured.


Relocating quiet time to the hammock

A blooper of the following not-so-quiet-time!

I'm so glad I got to squeeze in this weekend with them all.  Rosalee is sharp and fun to talk with, and I feel as though I got the last moments of Elliott as a baby.  Thanks for having me, Brookshire Family!  Maybe the next time we see each other will be in California.

Saturday, March 26, 2022

Letizia in CA: COVID Be Damned!


After a couple false positive false starts to her arrival, Letizia came to San Francisco in late January for a work trip.  It was a pretty special, unexpected, post-pandemic international friend visit. We hung out a bit in the city and then made our way to the coast.  Here are some highlights of the trip!

I was so glad we were able to get this group together.  Maryana and Letizia had never met, and I was happy to finally be introduced to Patti, who Letizia has worked with many times on her U.S. work trips.  And what a rare occasion these days, a dinner party with people of different backgrounds but all connected, together for a fun evening of conversation.  It was truly joyful!

Leti, Patti, me, Brittany and Maryana 
at Brenda's Meat & Three

Together again later that week, we had a surprisingly delicious, fun dinner at Sushi Toni downtown before Leti's colleague Patti headed back to NYC.  


Why is Leti pointing?
The world will never know.

On our first full day together, I finally got to try Mama's brunch in Washington Square, which often has hours long waits on the weekend.  How lovely to have a free weekday to enjoy fresh air, yummy food, and a good friend in the city.





Letizia loves City Lights Book Store so much that she chose her hotel by one main criterion: that it's within walking distance of it.




Inside/outside COVID masking struggles

After our day in the city, we drove south along Highway 1 to Half Moon Bay, where I had reserved an Airbnb with a hot tub and ocean view.  


We made it in time for sunset and later got Peruvian food, which we got to enjoy beside a fire pit on the patio.



We packed a lot in on our one full day in HMB, starting with a hike through Eucalyptus groves up near our Airbnb.

She has a way of making you stop 
and appreciate the little things


After having worked up an appetite, I took Leti to the incredible hidden taco shop in a gas station mini mart in Pescadero, and we made it a progressive lunch by having just one taco each and then going farther inland to a really cute spot called Loma Mar Store and Kitchen.  Highly recommend this cozy, redwood-surrounded cabin that balances a local feel with a delicious, refined menu.  (And the locals will entertain you, perhaps by talking loudly on their cell about how they're enjoying listening to the girls next to them speak...French.)
Pescadero


Loma Mar

Later, we made a quick stop by Harley Goat Farm where we said hello to these little guys and picked up some of their amazing cheese for dinner, along with artichoke bread and other tasty treats from Pescadero for our aperitivo dinner back home.




Needing to get in some actual beach time (which during the winter in Northern California consists of a lot of layers and hot tea), we stopped at Pomponio Beach for a walk and impromptu photoshoot at sunset.  We were the only people on the beach - it was magical being just us, surrounded by imposing cliffs on one side, and the endless Pacific Ocean on the other.








And then sunset hit.



To cap off our lovely getaway, we spent way more time than one should in the hot tub, drinking wine and chatting about, well, everything.  I never have enough time to discuss life with Letizia, and am always grateful for her perspective, conviction, and sense of humor.  We swapped songs, I introduced her to Wordle, she fell asleep on the couch.  We packed a lot into the day!


Our last morning we were up early to pack, check out, and get Leti a COVID test.  Our last meal together was near the airport at a Mediterranean spot with so-amazing-they're-hard-to-believe reviews, called Mazra.  Let me tell you, it lived up to expectations!  This will be my new go-to near the airport.


And that was it!  Next time, Leti, I'm coming to you.  Can't wait!